08/13/2026
When I was little, my nanny told me to marry a rich man to take care of me. She was saying it from love, but I learned a long time ago the kind of rich I wanted, wasn’t going to be provided by someone else. Yea I wanted to be rich, but not the way she meant
What I learned I wanted was to be
Rich in health
Rich in presence
Rich in peace
Rich in safety
Those aren’t words for me, they are real goals, written down, with a roadmap of steps to get them
Because I used to be broke, I KNOW what not having each feels like, and I decided over a decade ago, I was never going to live like that again
I was anxious all the time, it was a low hum that never stopped, even when I didn’t have anything to be stressed about
Always thinking to the past and ruminating; or running through the future that felt doomed to implode
Triggered by every unexpected issue, inconvenience, person who let me down
Always worrying about the next paycheque to provide a roof, groceries, healing sessions, independence . It felt like basic needs were always on the line even at times they weren’t
The crazy part? My life looked normal. People had no idea what was happening underneath. While I felt like everyday was survival mode.
Changing it was slow. It was quiet. I stumbled, A LOT
But now people seek the room I am in. Ask for advice, and leave steadier than when they arrived.
If you have been around someone who is rich, not in money, but in who they are, you KNOW the feeling. And it makes you want to be rich too
This page is about the roadmap that got me here, so that I can help other people build a rich life too