08/26/2026
Does your child hold it together all day at school… only to fall apart the minute they get home? 💜
Crying. Yelling. Irritability. Meltdowns. Refusing simple requests. Big reactions to little things.
Sometimes, this isn’t a sign that your child can control their behaviour at school but chooses not to at home. It may be a sign that they’ve used up most of their regulation battery getting through the school day.
Think about everything their brain may have been working hard to manage: concentrating, sitting still, noise, transitions, friendships, worries, unexpected changes, other children’s behaviour—and their own emotions.
Then they arrive home, where they finally feel safe enough to release everything they’ve been holding in.
💜 Connection before correction.
This doesn’t mean ignoring inappropriate behaviour or removing boundaries. It means recognizing that a dysregulated child may need help getting their body and brain regulated before they can effectively listen, problem-solve, reflect, or learn from what happened.
Try meeting the need first: a snack, a drink, quiet time, movement, connection, fewer demands, and a little space to decompress.
Then, when their battery has had a chance to recharge, you can come back to the conversation.
Regulation is a skill—and just like other skills, children learn it through practice, coaching, connection, and watching the adults around them model it. 💜
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