19/08/2026
As children return to school after the summer holidays, many families will be looking forward to new beginnings, new routines and seeing familiar faces again.
But for a child who is grieving the death of someone they love, returning to school can bring a whole mixture of emotions.
They may be excited one moment and tearful the next. They might worry about being asked how their summer was, seeing friends who don't know what has happened, or simply having to carry on with ordinary school life when everything feels far from ordinary.
Grief doesn't stop because the school holidays are over.
Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do is simply listen, give them time and let them know that whatever they are feeling is okay. A quiet word from a teacher, a little extra understanding from a friend, or knowing there is someone they can turn to can make a tremendous difference.
For parents and carers, please remember that there is no 'right' way for a child to grieve. Some children talk openly, others become quiet. Some seem perfectly fine and then struggle unexpectedly.
Be gentle with them — and with yourselves. ❤️
As a funeral director, we know that grief affects every member of a family, including the youngest. We are always here to offer support, reassurance and a listening ear when families need us.
Thinking of all the children and young people returning to school while carrying the loss of someone they love. 🕊️
