10/09/2026
Yesterday, I had a conversation with a long-term client that I haven’t stopped thinking about.
When they first came to see me, the goal was managing pain, then we started building strength.
We had PBs to work towards. Things to aim for & progress to measure.
But recently, I challenged them to think about something different:
What do you actually want your body to be able to do?
Big goals. Small goals. Random goals. Anything.
The answers?
To paddleboard on their next family holiday.
To dance around the house without worrying about hurting themselves.
To do a pull-up.
And to hold their own bodyweight in a tricep dip.
I loved every single one.
Not because they’re the goals I would have chosen for them.
But because they’re theirs.
They’re connected to their life. The things they want to experience and the confidence they want to have in their body.
And it made me think about how easily training can pull us into focusing entirely on what we want our bodies to look like.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with aesthetic goals but I don’t think they should be the only goals we have.
Because we’re also training for the holidays we haven’t taken yet, for the things we’ll say yes to because we feel physically capable, for running around with future grandchildren, for getting older without feeling like we’re becoming more limited, for dancing around the kitchen without worrying about getting hurt.
For living.
And that’s how I approach both coaching and my own training.
Yes, we might have performance goals. You might want to get stronger, run faster, hit a PB or change how your body looks.
But underneath all of that, I’m always thinking about something bigger:
What are we building this body for?
What do you want to be able to say yes to?
What do you want to feel confident doing?
And how can we train now to help you keep doing those things for as long as possible?
That’s how I coach.
And honestly, it’s how I train too.
We’re not just training for the next goal. We’re building for the life that happens around it.
Train Strong. Stay Resilient. 💜