08/08/2026
Relationships are tricky. It can be hard to know who to trust. People who are less wary, just let everyone in! But they learn their lessons eventually. It's the right thing to open your heart and give people the benefit of the doubt. But just because your heart is open, it doesn't mean you can't still watch for the red flags. You can choose to change your opinion of someone, or handle a relationship differently based on the information you collect. It's not too late to set boundaries or put distance between you. Learning to have a soft heart and sharp mind staves off the disconnection, but keeps you safe. The alternative is a protective loneliness that only makes you more vulnerable to the wolves.