10/09/2026
Intimacy Homework, Part 3: Make an Intimacy Menu
“If they wanted to, they would.”
Okay…but if they don’t know what you want, how could they?
For Part 3 of Intimacy Homework, s*x + relationship counselor Erica Hartmus, LPC is turning your wants, needs, and desires into something a little more concrete: an intimacy menu.
The goal isn’t for your partner to read your mind. It’s to get clearer about what intimacy looks like for you and practice communicating it.
If you’re partnered, make your menus separately and compare. Where do you overlap? What did you learn about each other?
If you’re single, use the exercise to explore what you want from intimacy and relationships.
And Erica has extra credit for the couples. 👀
Save this one and come back next Friday for Part 4.