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I’m a clinical psychologist, and there’s ONE thing I really don’t like about giving diagnoses- It’s how quickly it can b...
06/18/2026

I’m a clinical psychologist, and there’s ONE thing I really don’t like about giving diagnoses-

It’s how quickly it can become someone’s entire identity.

You go from “I sometimes struggle with anxiety” to “I’m an anxious person.”

The diagnosis stops being a helpful description and becomes an entire identity. And once it’s part of your identity, it becomes so much more difficult to move past it in the future, as your world adjusts and reinforces that new identity at every turn.

You are so much more than a label.

Ever heard of the Transtheoretical Model (TTM) by Prochaska? It helps to understand how we change our behaviors, and has...
06/09/2026

Ever heard of the Transtheoretical Model (TTM) by Prochaska? It helps to understand how we change our behaviors, and has five stages:

Stage 1: Precontemplation – You’re not even thinking about changing yet (no plans in the next 6 months).

Stage 2: Contemplation – You’re aware and thinking about it, but not ready to start (ambivalent, weighing pros & cons).

Stage 3: Preparation – You’re planning to take action soon (within the next 30 days) and may have small steps ready.

Stage 4: Action – You’ve started making real changes (consistent for less than 6 months).

Stage 5: Maintenance – You’ve kept the new habit going for more than 6 months and it’s becoming a habit

This model is a helpful way to think about making your habits stick. Pick one habit you want to improve. Then quickly identify which stage you are in with these questions:

Planning to change in the next 6 months? (No = Stage 1)
Planning to start in the next 30 days? (No = Stage 2)
Already started? (No = Stage 3 |
Already started 6 months ago? = Stage 5

Once you know your stage, take one small step to the next one:

Stage 1 to 2 (Precontemplation → Contemplation)
Get a little curious. Read one short article, watch a 1-minute video, or ask: “What’s one good thing that could happen if I changed?”

Stage 2 to 3 (Contemplation → Preparation)
Write down 2–3 reasons why you want the change. It's helpful to think about the pain in your life associated with NOT making this change, also. Then pick a realistic start date in the next 30 days and include one small step you can take.

Stage 3 to 4 (Preparation → Action)
Do that first small step today or tomorrow. Put it in your calendar and tell one person you trust that you’re starting. They will help hold you to it.

Stage 4 to 5 (Action → Maintenance)
Track it! (calendar checkmarks work great). When you slip, quickly ask “What caused that?” and get back on track. After 6 months of intentional work it gets much easier.

Stage 5 (Maintenance — you’re here!)
Keep it fresh: mix it up when bored, have a backup plan for hard days, and feel proud of your new habit.

The key here is to move through one stage at a time, and build progress incrementally.

Let me know how it goes so I can cheer you on as you make big changes in your life!

Why Your Attachment Style Is Secretly Running Your Adult RelationshipsMost relationship problems aren’t about “personali...
05/29/2026

Why Your Attachment Style Is Secretly Running Your Adult Relationships

Most relationship problems aren’t about “personality clashes.” They’re often driven by unconscious attachment styles formed early in life.

Research has identified four main styles:

Secure: Comfortable with both closeness and independence
Anxious: Fears abandonment and seeks constant reassurance
Avoidant: Pulls away when things get intimate
Disorganized: Craves connection but is also terrified of it

These patterns powerfully shape how we argue, trust, withdraw, or engage our partner in relationships.

The hopeful news? Attachment styles are not fixed, and I've made a living helping people change their own attachment styles over time. With awareness and intentional work, you can move toward a more secure way of relating.

The real shift begins when you stop blaming your partner and start noticing your own patterns.

Which attachment style do you relate to most?

What’s one repeating pattern you’ve noticed in your relationships?

02/22/2026

Ever wondered: Psychologist or Psychiatrist—who’s who?

🔹 Psychologist: Therapy, coping tools, understanding thoughts/behaviors (no meds).
🔹 Psychiatrist: Medical doctor who can prescribe medication + diagnose.

They’re teammates in mental health— but not the same!

Tag a friend who needs this clarity ✅ What surprised you most?

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