On Bright Wings

On Bright Wings Live fully, die well. Our mission is to educate, support, and guide all to the end of their journey.

Welcome to On Bright Wings

On Bright Wings is an innovative, creative, and sacred death midwifery service for end-of-life guidance, education, and support. We offer private in-home and in-facility consultations, guidance, and support; as well as workshops in dying consciously, grief and loss support, and end-of-life guidance and education for individuals, groups, and families. On Bright Wings uses creative therapy techniques such as art, music, dialogue and reenactment, and guided imagery to achieve peace, comfort, and healing acceptance in preparation for life's next adventure. Trisha Jauchler, MA, MS, RDT/BCT is the founder and director of On Bright Wings. She is a Registered Drama Therapist, trained death midwife, and ordained non-denominational minister. She has over 25 years of experience leading educational, therapeutic, spiritual, and creative groups for adults, teens, and children. She is an adjunct professor at the Drama Therapy Institute of Los Angeles, and an instructor in the Pathway Program at UCLA Extension. About Owls:
In many cultures Owl is seen as guardian of the otherworld and protector of the dead. Wise Owl is ruler of the night and seer of souls, a keeper of spirits who have passed from one plane to another. Myth often tells of Owl accompanying a spirit to the otherworld, winging its newly freed soul from the physical world into the realm of spirit.

As above, so below.
08/23/2026

As above, so below.

The Turn of the Seasons.

I once read a novel in which the wisest character in the story was approaching the end of her own life.
Her death would not be traumatic or unexpected, though.
She knew her years, her seasons and her days were falling away, and those around her knew this too.
She was lucky in this type of quiet passing, of course, as she had lived for many years and witnessed many worse kinds of death.

As her time approached, she became more mindful of the world and those she loved, and those who loved her.
Her friends would catch her watching them, her smiling sometimes, as she settled into her final slowing down.

Her own appreciation for all she had lived through was matched only by the fear and anxiousness of those around her.
They had yet to live such a life.
They had not walked her path, nor had they made the always-kind decisions she had made as she watched over her loved ones as they grew.
And, because of this, they did not have the wisdom to understand a life's closing and how death draws down upon us all.

So it was that for those she was leaving behind, the final days were filled with a sense of panic.
What would they do?
Who knew the world like she did?
Who knew the herbs and healing plants with slim stems which, when collected and dried, could alleviate pain or reduce fever?
Who would know when it was the right time to pick the fragile wild garlic plants, or the flowers that grew by the riverbank?
It was always her who could best tell when the petal shades were just the perfect colour, signalling their potency.
Who else could read the patterns of migrating birds and know when to sow, when to harvest, and when to gather what would be needed to survive another winter.

The fear of turning and change, though, is both needless and futile.
As one thing passes, another comes into being.
The exchange of death for birth and the old for the new is what creates life in the first place, after all.
The wheel of the seasons sometimes strains as it turns, pulling the land, drawing the waters and reshaping the stars and constellations in their wake.
As above, so below.
Always turning.

Just as those before us handed down their wisdom and legacy, one day we will do the same.
Whether we pass this on with a sense of peace depends on the lives we have lived, I think.
We are all only here for the briefest time.
Even when we live a long life, it is, really, always a too-short life.
Our friendships, our loves, and our own lives are themselves only seasons waiting to change and leave their mark upon the world.

(C.) David Halpin.
Image: ‘At the First Touch of Winter, Summer Fades Away by Valentine Cameron Princep.

Wow. I’m going to have to sit with this one for awhile. What do you think about it?
07/11/2026

Wow. I’m going to have to sit with this one for awhile. What do you think about it?

Should patients who choose euthanasia be able to die by having their vital organs removed for donation? The ethical concerns are substantial.

To live, we must die every instant. We must perish again and again in the storms that make life possible.—Thich Nhat Han...
07/05/2026

To live, we must die every instant. We must perish again and again in the storms that make life possible.
—Thich Nhat Hanh

Reminder: give your grief a voice.
06/26/2026

Reminder: give your grief a voice.

Long before the funeral home and the formal eulogy, the Irish had keening. 🌿 It was one of the oldest and most powerful grief rituals in the world, a tradition so ancient its roots disappear into the pre-Christian Irish past. When someone died, the women of the community would gather at the graveside or around the body and give their grief a voice, a raw, wailing, wordless sound that rose and fell in waves, filling the air above the fields and the hills so that the whole landscape knew someone had passed.

The keeners were not performing. They were doing something far more serious than that. They were holding the community's grief so that no one had to carry it alone. The sound of keening was believed to ease the passage of the soul, to honor the dead in a way that silence never could, and to give those left behind permission to feel the full weight of their loss without shame or restraint. In a culture that had already survived centuries of conquest, famine, and dispossession, keening was proof that the Irish had always known how to survive sorrow by naming it out loud.

The British colonial administration banned keening in the 19th century, calling it uncivilized. 💚 The Irish kept doing it anyway, in quieter forms, in the kitchen, at the graveside, in the way certain families still go very still and very present when one of their own is lost. You cannot legislate grief out of a people. You can only drive it underground, where it waits.

The right (and wrong) things to say to a grieving friend.
05/09/2026

The right (and wrong) things to say to a grieving friend.

It can be hard to find the right words to say to a friend whose loved one has died. Experts share the dos and don'ts of expressing condolences.

Death can be frightening, chiefly because we don’t know that what we’re seeing is a natural process.
05/07/2026

Death can be frightening, chiefly because we don’t know that what we’re seeing is a natural process.

When a loved one is dying, being told "we're not giving fluids" can feel shocking — even cruel. But it's actually an act of deep care. 💙

At end of life, the body is naturally shutting down. The kidneys can't process fluid. The lungs can fill up. The gut has stopped working. Adding IV fluids doesn't bring comfort — it can cause breathlessness, swelling, and distress.

What we do instead: gentle mouth care, moisturized lips, and being present.
Withholding fluids is not withholding love.
Save this to share with a family who needs to hear it. 🤍

Don’t let anyone ever tell you that you shouldn’t grieve them. They are family, too.
10/10/2025

Don’t let anyone ever tell you that you shouldn’t grieve them. They are family, too.

09/12/2025

I hope death feels like….

Why we should avoid euphemisms when talking about death.
07/29/2025

Why we should avoid euphemisms when talking about death.

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