09/08/2026
1. Lifting weights, but not as often as you might think
You should lift heavy—whatever “heavy” is for you. But really you only need to lift 2–3 days a week… and if I’m being honest I got away with once a week during peak craziness in my life.
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2. Eat enough protein, but also eat your carbs too
Yes, we know protein = muscle growth. 💪 But it’s doing more than that.
Protein helps with blood sugar regulation and supports the enzymes involved in estrogen, progesterone, and thyroid hormone metabolism.
And carbs? Please stop being afraid of them. They fuel your training, support recovery, and provide the energy your reproductive system needs.
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3. Worry less about doing the “right” exercises and care more about how your body feels doing them
Does your body feel like stretching today instead of deadlifts. Do it.
Maybe you feel like walking instead of running. Perfect!
The idea of a 9pm living room workout after putting your kids to bed makes your skin crawl?
Full Stop and put on your audiobook.
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4. Find your go-to Rest menu.
Find out what things make you feel rested… especially if you’re a new mom only getting 4 hours of sleep a night.
A walk in the woods?
A good soak in the tub?
YouTube ASMR?
Ted Lasso?
Clarify what things recharge you 10% more when you’re in need of a boost.
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5. Movement snacks!
Everyone approaches exercise like it’s a 5 course meal.
A movement snack is a zero commitment spur of the moment choice to stack a little exercise onto a low effort daily activity.
I say zero commitment because it’s meant to be a little silly. Save your discipline and structure to when you can actually make it to the gym.
Some examples of movement snacks for me are:
* Goblet squats while the tea water is boiling
* Calf raises while I brush my teeth
* Single leg balance while I stand at my computer
* Seated dumbbell overhead press when watching Netflix.
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