09/02/2026
Going to be very real here, because this is the honest truth.
1. I feel every single patient outcome. Deeply. Personally.
If a patient struggles, I take it home with me. I live with those feelings. It’s gut wrenching. I really do care. I think that makes me a better and stronger doctor, but there are moments when I wish I could disconnect.
2. I have two beautiful daughters, but too often, I put work first.
More commitments. Saying yes when I should say no. Missed bedtimes. Late nights. Early mornings. Weekends. As I write this, I realize how much I wish that weren’t true. I love what I do and I want to be there for my patients and my career. I’m still struggling with how to balance that with being the mother my girls need. I don’t always get it right, and I’m still figuring out what needs to change—but I’m committed to being there for my girls in the best way I can.
3. Social media has been both a blessing and a curse.
I love sharing what I do. I love educating, connecting with my community, and the incredible friendships I’ve made here. But the time spent thinking about posts, filming, editing, and engaging are hours I’m not spending on my actual work or with my family. I’m still trying to figure out how to make it sustainable.
4. The constant time pressure of my life gets to me.
Every minute of every day feels 200% full. The more opportunities and responsibilities I take on, the harder it gets. Time pressure wears down my emotional reserves, increases my stress, and honestly, sometimes makes me wonder whether the intensity of the career I chose comes with a cost I’ll feel years from now.
5. I’ve struggled my entire life to accept “good enough.”
I chase perfection. That has made me a thorough, meticulous surgeon—and I’m proud of that. But perfectionism can also be a hindrance.
I’m sharing this because I think there’s value in being honest about the parts of medicine that people don’t always see.
To my amazing patients: thank you for entrusting me with your lives. I take that responsibility incredibly seriously. You are the reason I show up every single day. 🫶🏻