07/30/2026
One of the most relieving things a parent can hear is this: your child is not trying to make your life harder. The behavior you are seeing is the nervous system communicating that something is too much, not a child who has decided to push your buttons.
When we shift from "why are they doing this to me" to "what does my child's brain need right now," the whole conversation changes. That shift is not easy, but it is possible, and it starts with understanding what is actually happening underneath the surface.
If you have ever wondered whether executive function or ADHD is part of what your family is navigating, I put together a free Quick Check to help you see the picture more clearly. Drop a comment with the word ASSESSMENT and I will send it straight to your inbox.
Warmly, Dr. Grizelda Anguiano
Anchored Pediatric Mental Health