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Mastering Conflict.

10/29/2026

“He’s toxic.” “She’s toxic.”

Maybe so. But telling someone what you think they are probably will not change them.

Focus on what you can control. Set a boundary around the behavior.

“When the yelling starts, I’m going to step away. I’ll come back when we can talk normally.”

That part is up to you.

10/27/2026

Before you call someone out, check yourself.

When somebody is driving you crazy, it is easy to see everything they are doing wrong. Take a second and ask:

“What am I contributing to this?”

You may still need to address their actions. Just make sure you have looked at your own behavior first.

10/26/2026

If there’s tension between you and someone, go first.

Send the text. Make the call. Say, “Can we talk?”

You may not have caused the conflict, but you can still be the one who starts repairing it.

10/23/2026

"That's not what I meant!" Ever said that in an argument?

You know what you meant. They know how it landed. When you argue about your intent, they hear you defending yourself.

Start with how it landed instead. Try, "I can see that came across badly. Tell me how you heard it."

Intent can wait. Impact goes first.

10/21/2026

Wait, don't send that email!

Go ahead and write it, then delete their name from the "To" line. Anger makes everything feel urgent, but most emails can wait a few hours.

Write it hot. Send it cold.

10/19/2026

Called someone a narcissist lately? Don't be a labeler.

Labels destroy conversations. The moment you diagnose someone, they stop listening and start defending.

Describe the behavior and what they said instead. A behavior is something a person can change.

10/17/2026

Someone screaming at you? Get quieter.

Lower your voice and slow your pace. People often start matching the calmer rhythm.

It may take a minute, so stay with it. When they get loud, you get quiet.

10/16/2026

When a conflict gets tense, people often start explaining harder and harder.

Try saying what you mean, then stop.

More words can start sounding like arguing.

Make your point. Give it some air.

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