10/25/2026
Honest thoughts as a Christian doula…
Navigating the birth world can be wild. There is so much beauty in holding space for mothers, but let’s be real: modern birth circles are filled with a lot of noise, New Age practices, and conflicting views. Here are a few things on my heart today:
✨ God didn’t make a mistake. When He designed baby boys' bodies, He got it right. We don't need to overcomplicate or permanently alter His physical design.
✨ Pain-free birth isn’t a faith test. If you experience pain during labor, it doesn't mean you lacked faith or didn't trust God enough. Birth is intense, hard work, and experiencing pain is a natural physical response, not a spiritual failure.
✨ Childbirth is NOT a curse. Labor pain and hard work are part of a fallen world, but the process of bringing life into the world itself is a holy, blessed gift from God—not a punishment.
✨ Not all interventions are evil. While I love supporting natural birth, modern medicine and medical interventions are not the enemy. When used appropriately, they are incredible tools that save the lives of mothers and babies. God gives wisdom and skill to medical professionals for a reason.
✨ Let’s talk about placentas… I know placenta encapsulation is popular, but honestly? Consuming human tissue is ethically and spiritually questionable—and a bit too close to cannibalism for comfort. God gave us plenty of other ways to nourish and restore a mother’s body postpartum!
✨ Watch what you bring into your birth space. From crystals and manifestations to witchcraft and New Age rituals, there is a lot of spiritual clutter pushed onto expectant mothers. As a Christian, I believe true peace, strength, and protection in the delivery room come from the Holy Spirit alone—not objects, spells, or self-deification.
At the end of the day, God created women's bodies with incredible strength and purpose. We can honor Him, trust His design, and welcome life into the world with discernment, faith, and practical care. 🤍
Has anyone else felt the need for more discernment in birth spaces lately?