12/10/2026
Some days don't switch off on their own. You leave your desk, but the tension follows you home.
Clinical psychologist Dr Louise Langman uses a simple end-of-day routine to close the gap between "work mode" and rest.
It starts with a three-minute breathing space, a short practice for stepping out of autopilot:
Notice. Acknowledge the thoughts, feelings and sensations that are here right now, and let them be as they are.
Gather. Follow each in-breath and out-breath, changing nothing. When your mind wanders, guide it back.
Expand. Widen your awareness from the breath to the whole body, head to toes.
The goal isn't to remove difficult feelings. It's to create enough space to respond with perspective instead of reacting on impulse.
From there, she resets her environment: clearing her desk so it feels calm the next morning, and using a spa-scented spray to lift the room.
To wind down further, she listens to EMDR-inspired bilateral beats on Calm a relaxation feature in the app (not the clinical EMDR therapy) that helps her transition into her own time.
Small resets, repeated daily, add up.
This is general wellbeing information, not a substitute for personalised professional advice. If stress feels persistent or overwhelming, it's worth speaking to a qualified professional.
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