26/05/2026
Your baby refusing the breast does not automatically mean they’re weaning.
Knowing the difference between a nursing strike, low milk supply, and self-weaning can feel confusing. Nursing strikes often happen suddenly and alongside common triggers like illness, teething, distraction, or changes in routine.
Low milk supply tends to come on more gradually and may include signs like:
✨impatience at the breast
✨difficulty settling after feeds
✨wanting to feed more often consistently
✨decreased diaper output
Self-weaning, on the other hand, typically happens around 3.5 years of age.
During a nursing strike, you need to protect your milk. If baby isn’t emptying the breast as well as usual, pumping for a couple of days as needed will prevent engorgement and a drop in supply.
Most importantly, follow your baby’s lead with feeds. Just like we eat less and sleep more when we feel sick or get busy with a project and forget to eat, so can your baby. The good news is that nursing strikes occur once baby is older and able to hold their own. They’re not the same tiny newborn that had to eat every 2-3 hours always.
✨offer smaller, more frequent feeds
✨feed in a calm, quiet environment
✨try different positions
✨provide pain relief when indicated