02/11/2026
This November, we’re talking about men’s mental health with straight answers.
Men make up just over a third of referrals to NHS talking therapies. In Healthwatch research, only one in five men said they’d self-refer if they were struggling.
It isn’t that men don’t struggle. It’s that asking for help can feel awkward, unfamiliar, or like admitting something. And plenty of men simply don’t know what happens if they do ask: what they’d be expected to say, who would hear it, what it would involve.
So for the rest of November, we’ll be answering those questions plainly:
Covering things like:
- How stress shows up in the body, and why “just relax” isn't working
- What the job can do to the nervous system, for emergency service and forces families
- How to start the conversation, with yourself or with someone you’re worried about
- What actually happens in a hypnotherapy session, and what doesn’t
If you’re a man who’s been getting on with it for a long time, this is for you. If you love one, it’s for you too.
No pressure. Just information.
If you need to talk to someone right now: Samaritans 116 123 (free, 24 hours) or CALM 0800 58 58 58 (5pm to midnight, every day). In an emergency, call 999.