25/10/2026
How much time do you spend on your phone? 📱
This image has become such a familiar sight when travelling anywhere these days. Everywhere we look, people are plugged in, heads down, seemingly hypnotised by their phones.
When smartphones first took off, much of our concern was focused on children and younger generations. Endless conversations about screen time, phone hygiene and the impact of growing up in a digital world.
And rightly so. There is now a whole generation who have never known a world without smartphones.
But I don't believe this is just a concern for younger generations anymore. Our life is in our phones!
Look around. Across every age group, adults are just as absorbed, distracted and plugged in.
In Traditional Chinese Medicine, prolonged screen time depletes our Liver Blood, and blood in general Constant stimulation drains our Kidney Qi and Jing (our vital essence), associated with vitality and longevity.
Perhaps it's time we all reflected on our own habits.
Where could we begin to put our phones down and reconnect?
When travelling: Could we look out of the window, notice the landscape and allow our minds to wander?
Walking our children to school: Are we talking, listening and connecting, or beside them and checking our phones.
With our partners: Are we sharing moments and conversations, or sitting together absorbed in separate screens?
At mealtimes: Could we enjoy our food and company rather than mindlessly scrolling?
When we wake up: Do we stretch, gather our thoughts and welcome the day, or immediately reach for our phones?
In everyday routines: Do we need our phones in the bathroom, bath or bed?
And perhaps one of the biggest questions is what are we teaching our children through our own behaviour?
If we're constantly distracted when we're with them, what does that teach them about connection, attention and being present?
How do children learn to engage with the world if the adults who are their primary source of connection are so often unavailable, even when right beside them?
It's about noticing how easily our phones can take us away from the people and moments right in front of us.
So here's a little challenge for tomorrow.
Choose three moments or places where you would normally reach for your phone, and consciously decide not to.
Notice what happens. Perhaps you'll have a conversation, notice something beautiful, let your mind wander or simply enjoy some quiet. Or pick up a book?
We spend so much time connected online. But how connected are we to the life happening right in front of us?
Where will you choose to put your phone down tomorrow? 👌✨🙏