06/08/2026
One of the biggest misconceptions about this work and nervous system regulation is that it’s about becoming calmer.
While yes, you can absolutely experience that, it’s also about becoming more honest.
Honest about what you’re feeling, about what isn’t working, about where you’re abandoning yourself to keep other people comfortable.
What made me so proud about this particular client wasn’t just that she set a boundary, but that she trusted herself enough to listen when something felt off instead of immediately talking herself out of it.
Because when you’ve spent years overriding your own needs, speaking up can feel uncomfortable, selfish, or even wrong. But the more connected you become to yourself, the harder it becomes to ignore your own needs.
Also celebrating that she just joined The Gap, my 3-month somatic coaching container, and I’m so excited to see her come home to herself even more inside of it.
If you’ve been curious about somatic work, I’m hosting a virtual donation-based community breathwork session this Thursday evening.
This is for you if you’re feeling overwhelmed, tired of living in your head, constantly overthinking, second-guessing yourself, or knowing exactly what you need but struggling to actually follow through on it.
It’s an opportunity to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and experience what becomes possible when you stop trying to think your way through everything and start listening to your body instead.
🦋 Link in bio to sign-up