10/28/2026
Welcome to 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘍𝘰𝘶𝘳 of 𝗡𝗼𝗯𝗼𝗱𝘆 𝗧𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗨𝘀 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀, a series about the things women have been taught to normalize, dismiss, or simply endure.
This week, we are talking about the part of the month women joke about constantly, but rarely get taught to actually understand.
You know the feeling… There is a stretch of the month when your patience gets shorter, your energy drops, your cravings change, your sleep feels different, your anxiety seems louder, or you simply do not feel quite like yourself. Then, when your period arrives, things eventually settle down, and you move on until it happens again.
Because women have been hearing “it’s just PMS“ for most of our lives, many of us learn to treat those symptoms like an embarrassing personality change instead of information worth paying attention to.
Yes, hormonal fluctuations throughout the menstrual cycle are normal. HOWEVER, that does not mean every level of premenstrual discomfort or disruption automatically has to be accepted as part of being a woman. The timing matters, the severity matters, how long it lasts matters, and most importantly, the effect it has on your actual life matters.
This is why I want women tracking more than when their period starts. When we begin looking at symptoms alongside cycle timing, sleep, stress, nourishment, movement, cravings, mood, medications, and the rest of the woman’s life, patterns can become much easier to recognize.
That does not mean diagnosing yourself from a tracker or blaming every bad day on hormones. It means having better information about your own body.
That is a big part of the work I do in women’s health coaching. I help women understand their patterns, identify the areas they can actually support, prepare better questions, and advocate for themselves with more than “I just feel off” when they walk into a healthcare appointment.
You do not need to spend part of every month apologizing for yourself and waiting to feel normal again.
What changes for you in the week or two before your period that you were always taught to just accept?