27/08/2026
Sometimes the problem really is you. Ooft. That hits doesn’t it? (Weirdly, I think that’s incredibly empowering.)
Specifically what I’m talking about is the responsibility each and every one of us has for the energy we bring into a room.
That energy has two parts:
1. Your physical energy.
It determines your effort, how you engage, what you offer, and the capacity of your body and mind to actually get things done.
2. Your frequency energy.
The less tangible energy people feel from you. Your presence, attitude, emotional state and the way you affect the people and environments around you.
Your energy has far more power than you realise to shape the outcomes you want. But 90% of it has to come from you.
How you eat. How you take care of yourself. How you manage your mind. How you tend to your bandwidth. How you show up, both in person and in presence.
All of it has an immediate effect on your life.
There was a time in my life where if someone had told me this I would have unleashed a bit of South African on them 😂 until I realised that reflection and taking responsibility ie. growth was the most freeing thing in the entire world.
I always tell people to start with their nutrition and build their energy from there (your food literally builds your mood).
Because when your body has more to give, you have more to give.
Ultimately the energy you bring to your life is yours to take responsibility for and that can be the single most empowering mental shift you will ever have - if you let it. It was for me💗
Remember - whatever you’re not changing, you’re choosing.