09/04/2026
Chicken nuggets. Plain pasta. Goldfish. Again.
If that’s dinner at your house most nights, you are so not alone. We hear this exact thing in counselling on a regular basis… “I don’t know what else to give them, they’ll only eat X, Y, and Z.”
Here’s the part that’s hard to hear but SO important... food ruts usually aren’t about your toddler being picky. They’re about the pattern that’s built up around meals (the short-order cooking, the grazing all day, the pressure to just get SOMETHING in them).
The fix isn’t more pressure, or bribing them to try new foods. It’s structure, schedules, and boundaries. Division of Responsibility means you decide what, when, and where... your toddler decides if and how much. One offered meal for everyone, with a safe food included, on a consistent schedule.
This isn’t about being strict. It’s about giving your toddler the best possible chance to actually get hungry, sit down, and explore what’s in front of them.
If you want a step-by-step plan built around your exact food rut, this is exactly what we help with in 1:1 counselling...
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