09/09/2026
“Nobody likes me.”
It is the kind of sentence that can make a parent’s heart drop.
You might want to reassure them immediately. Tell them it is not true. Name every friend they have. Fix the whole thing before tea.
But first, stay with what happened.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) often begins by separating the event from the meaning our minds attach to it.
“They played without me” is what happened.
“Nobody likes me” may be the conclusion their hurt reached afterwards.
You do not need to dismiss the feeling or agree with the conclusion. You can help them hold both.
“That sounds painful. Shall we look at what happened and what your brain decided it meant?”
Save these questions for the next difficult school day.