09/23/2026
Trauma myth #6: You should be over it by now.
Of all the myths, this one might be the most damaging, because it doesn’t just dismiss your pain. It adds shame on top of it.
Trauma doesn’t follow a timeline. It doesn’t care how many years have passed, how much therapy you’ve done, or how “small” the thing felt to everyone else. It lives in the nervous system, not on a calendar.
And the pressure to be over it? That pressure makes healing harder, not easier. Shame and healing cannot occupy the same space.
You are not behind. You are not broken. You’re healing at the pace your nervous system needs, and that pace deserves respect, not a deadline. 🤍
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