07/27/2026
My Roman Empire is the idea that caregivers deserve rest too.
Not after everything is done. Not when things slow down. Not as a reward for surviving another impossible week.
Just because they are human beings who need it.
I think about this constantly. Because I see what happens when caregivers don’t rest. And I see what becomes possible when they finally do.
You are allowed to read a book on a beach. You are allowed to do absolutely nothing for an afternoon. You are allowed to exist outside of your caregiving role without guilt chasing you the whole time.
That is not selfish. That is necessary.
Rest is not a reward you have to earn. You already earned it. 💙