Bree is Helpful AF

06/18/2026

This is my favorite memory from Trans Pride LA last year—a rad neon art show that was unapologetically trans as fuuuuccckkkk. Trans* Lounge and Trans Pride have been essential to my gender f**kery (I refuse to say “journey” lol) and my gratitude is endless knowing that we had these spaces before, we have them now, and we’ll keep having them. I am so excited to make new memories at Trans Pride this Saturday where I’ll be on the other side of the fun, this time being of service and providing ✨ free ✨ tarot readings! You can find me in the lobby of the Renberg Theater Los Angeles LGBT Center. I may or may not have some other goodies for yous, too! 🌈🏳️‍⚧️🖤

PS: You don’t have to live in LA to access the resources that Trans* Lounge provides! They offer tons of free virtual groups and classes, including my monthly tarot workshop, Easy Tarot for Self-Care: Accessible Divination with Playing Cards. Just go to translounge.org, click the “join Trans* Lounge” button to register, and then you’ll start receiving emails about all the programming. :)

05/21/2026

Come for the heartfelt accessibility message, stay for the mischievous cackles of a spoonie having a good time (because I wasn’t pushing myself through fu***ng pain all day!)



Accessibility description: A video in selfie view where I show that I’ve rented a scooter at the County Fair for the first time and even though I had some feelings about it, I immediately realized how much access it provided me to my surroundings and to joy. The end of the video shows me zipping around, laughing a lot, and being silly pretending to run over my partner who is filming.

05/17/2026

This photo really couldn’t get more gloriously fat: Sitting at and posing with a two-day old burger that was gifted to me by which she got from ’s performance at the fat liberation conference… AND IT’S SIGNED AHAHAHAHA. Ya’ll know I collect all sorts of fat bu****it but this is one that I will cherish most. 🍔🖤

Accessibility description: In the first image, I’m sitting in a chair and holding a wrapped hamburger to my open mouth. I’m a fat white person with short green hair and colorful tattoos on my right arm. I’m wearing square black sunglasses with silver lenses, a black denim vest, black f***y pack with silver studs, and black shorts. The second photo is a closeup of me showing the wrapped hamburger with Meatball’s signature in black marker against the white wrapper.

04/16/2026

I been having conversations about the personal and cultural impact of GLP-1 propaganda with friends, colleagues, and clients for a loooooong while and it’s time to bring these conversations to light. I don’t know a single fat person who’s not impacted by this s**t, so I figured the least I could do is share what’s been helping me. A spoonful of tune out, a hefty helping of logic, and a sprinkle of humor never hurt.

04/11/2026

I tried something different with this Rad Fatty post. While I do highlight a rad fatty who is very prominent in my life right now, I also share a bunch about why they're so important to me right now and how this all came about. I guess it's more of a longer personal essay reflecting on sports, injury, and a fat athlete who is not just inspiring me, but hitting me in the feels.

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03/13/2026

Sometimes it’s the silly little things that make the very unsilly big things a lot more bearable.

Accessibility description: The following text is placed over the same photo across 8 slides. The photo is me standing in the bath aisle at Ross Dress for Less with my arms shoved into a bunch of faux fur bath mats and my face resting against them as well. I’m a fat white person with a messy green mohawk. I’m wearing a black KN95 mask, black tshirt and shorts with a black sweater tied around my waist and black sneakers. There are tattoos on my right arm and right leg. The 9th slide shows a different photo, and closeup of my face resting in the bath mats with my eyes closed. Here you can also see the detail of my stretched lobes, which have black silicone tunnels. Here is the text that is over the first 8 slides:

A Silly Little Neurodivergent Tip I Learned by Accident That Actually Helped with Overstimulation in Public

If you’re out and about and you need a calming sensory aid, find your nearest Ross, TJ Maxx, Home Goods, etc. Go straight to the bath section and find the soooooffffftttteessest bath mats. Place two mats so the soft sides are facing each other, or fold one in half. Stack a bunch on top so there’s some weight... Then shove yourself all the f**k up inside for super soft sensory bliss!! This was honestly a spontaneous find, but it was such a game changer on a challenging day that we spent a good chunk of time brainstorming how to craft a bunch of bath mats into a custom sensory cocoon. TBD.

02/25/2026

Singing my way through the hellscape 🔥

02/19/2026

When I die, the estate sale is gonna be unrealllllllllol.

PS: I did not also go commando in the Savers, I was wearing leggings. YOU WISH!

02/14/2026

and serving hope, truth, and beauty all in one platter.

If you’re not already watching Lushious’ Dragvestigations, please add it to your self-care repertoire! She makes me laugh, makes me think, and has gifted me with some of my favorite vocal stims. Thank you for your service, diva!

01/19/2026

Celebrating four years of fat community with me and and the Fat Friday crew! 🐷🎂🎈