08/20/2026
We are heartbroken to share the passing of our former clinician and friend, Allison Oczko.
Allison passed away in June, though we only recently learned of her death. We are still processing the shock and sadness of this news, but we knew we wanted to take a moment to honor someone who holds such an important place in the story of Congruent Relationships.
In many ways, there would not be a Congruent Relationships without Allison.
Allison was our very first employee. In fact, this practice was originally started, in part, to create a place where she could leave a difficult work situation and practice therapy somewhere that felt more aligned with who she was as a clinician and as a person. What began as a way to create something better grew into the practice we have today, and Allison will always be part of that foundation.
Allison also fought incredibly hard for her professional identity. After years of navigating challenges with the state licensing board, completing additional coursework, and passing her exam, she finally earned her LMFT earlier this year. We were so proud of her. She remained with Congruent Relationships until April, when she left to begin the next chapter of her career with the license she had worked so hard to earn.
But when we think about Allison, we will remember much more than her accomplishments.
Allison showed up. Staff dinners, get-togethers, group supervision, celebrations, and opportunities to support the practice and its mission. If there was a chance to be part of the team, Allison was there. She volunteered alongside us at multiple Pride events because she believed in the community we serve and wanted to be part of supporting it.
We are incredibly grateful that her time at Congruent Relationships gave others the opportunity to know Allison, work alongside her, laugh with her, celebrate her accomplishments, and have her as part of our little community for the time that we did.
Our hearts are with her husband, Sam, as well as Allison’s family, friends, former clients, colleagues, and everyone whose life was touched by her.
We also recognize that learning about Allison’s death may bring up grief, sadness, or other difficult emotions for people who knew her. Please reach out to the people and supports in your life if you need them. If you are in crisis, 988 is available by call or text. If you need help connecting with mental health support or referrals, you are also welcome to contact us and we will do our best to help connect you with appropriate resources.