09/17/2026
The sentence I take most seriously in my practice isn't always "I want to die."
Sometimes it's "I don't want to be a burden."
A person can be working, showing up for everyone else, replying to every text — and still be quietly convinced that the people around them would be better off without them.
This September, for Su***de Prevention Month, I want to say this plainly: pay attention when someone tells you they feel hopeless, trapped, alone, or like a burden.
Don't brush it off.
Ask directly — "Are you thinking about hurting yourself or ending your life?"
This question does not create risk. It creates an opening for honesty, connection, and help.
You don't need the perfect words. You need to be willing to stay in the room.
If you or someone you love is struggling right now:
Call or text 988. The Su***de & Crisis Lifeline is free, confidential, and available 24/7.
Save this. Send it to someone. You might be the reason they stay.
- Dr. Venera Miller
This post is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, call or text 988.
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