11/04/2026
Even though you are a first time mom...
You began your labor with your membranes rupturing and feeling surges.. albeit minor and irregular.
Still... I would much rather come your way since it feels like bed time so that I can sleep on your sofa rather than try to sleep at my home and get woken up in 2 hours having to rush to you when your labor inevitably progresses much quicker than you anticipate.
And an hour later it was decided that maybe my advice would be beneficial to take... "early" presence feels comforting.
And I did go.
And I did attempt to sleep on the sofa.
And I did not succeed in sleeping on the sofa.
The labor did progress and was beginning to intensify just as I was arriving... ctx 2-3 min ramping up to 75 seconds in the hour after.
And just 4 hours later, we met a new baby girl.
It can be challenging to wrap your mind around a quickly progressing labor, but no one quite understands this more than a primip who experiences a labor that progresses faster than average with ruptured membranes which can make this even more pronounced without the cushion of the bag and fluid.
But to feel that power of the Holy Spirit and to be so mentally present in that progression is... woah... life changing...
An OB asks (jokingly and fully respecting the decision to birth at home) when a 3° tear repair is needed... "you wanted to birth at home and still decided to come see us here, huh... how was that for you?"
Mom replies with a glowing smile, "OH... it was the BEST!!!" 🙌