06/08/2026
If you're like most parents, you've probably heard some version of:
"Five more minutes!"
"I'm in the middle of something!"
"Everyone else gets more screen time than me!"
One of the biggest mistakes parents make isn't the amount of screen time—it's waiting until the end of screen time to introduce the limit. Children do best when expectations are clear from the start. Before the screen goes on, let your child know how long they'll have and what will happen when it's over. For example: "You can play for 30 minutes, then we'll have lunch." When children know what to expect, transitions tend to go more smoothly.
A few strategies that can help:
- Set the time limit before the screen goes on.
- Give reminders as the end approaches (10 minutes, 5 minutes, 1 minute).
- Be clear about what comes next.
- Keep routines predictable whenever possible.
- Stay calm and consistent, even if your child is disappointed.
Remember, frustration doesn't always mean the limit is wrong. Part of growing up is learning how to handle disappointment, wait, transition between activities, and cope when something enjoyable comes to an end. The goal isn't to avoid every battle. It's to help your child build the skills they'll need long after the screen is turned off. If screen time is becoming a significant source of stress at home, you're not alone. Many families struggle with this, and sometimes a little extra support can make a big difference.
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