09/18/2026
Yesterday I was on the phone with someone I love dearly who is right in that 27 to 33 year old window, and we were talking about the heavy pain of that age range. It’s not a quiet pressure; it’s big pressure, because you feel like something is wrong with you, that you’re behind, and you don’t know if you’re ever going to figure it out or get what you want.
Today, I want to remind you that this journey is actually about you connecting to and providing yourself with everything it is you think you need outside of yourself, and it probably sounds cliché and you’re tired of it, but it’s true.
Back in 2018, I actually created a program to help women through this exact thing. But I didn’t launch it then because I wasn’t ready. I wasn’t feeling okay enough yet myself. Now, sitting on the other side of feeling okay, I realize that this whole journey is really about loving, honoring, and being everything you need to yourself. And honestly? It feels really good knowing how deeply I got me. Turns out that’s all I was wanting.
Looking back on my late 20s and early 30s, I remember how dreadful and ever present that timeline pressure felt and how easy it was to believe everyone else was okay and I wasn’t.
I’m here to tell you that you’re not broken, you’re not late, and you’re not missing the code. You’re simply in the middle of your unraveling and becoming.
If you’re in that season right now, take a deep breath, drop your shoulders, and give yourself permission to stop outrunning your own life.
Comment SOVEREIGN below or send me a DM, and let’s talk through it together.
