10/26/2026
Cancer Center Chaplain's Corner: As I sit at my dining room table with toast and a cup of coffee, I’m thinking about many changes that are occurring and that are so impactful. The Rev. Terry Culbertson, Director of Spiritual Care here at Upstate is retiring well after 20 years of service. She has been an incredible blessing to so many people throughout her time here, including me. The Rev. Jake Marvel has come on board and is bringing his gifts and skills to the Spiritual Care Department, the hospital, and the Cancer Center. We celebrated Rev. Terry’s retirement and Rev. Jake’s installation last Thursday in the Chapel. It was a beautiful service.
Lisa, the receptionist at the front desk in the Cancer Center – Lisa #2 – is retiring this Thursday after being with us for many years. She has been an incredibly welcoming and supportive presence to patients, family members and staff. We wish her all the best as she begins a new chapter in her life.
People that are loved have died and their passing has been hard to bear.
The appearance of the season is changing, too. As we move deeper into Fall, I’ve noticed that almost all the leaves have now dropped. The beautiful colors that once were, are becoming more scarce.
And then, there are other changes that can impact us so profoundly.
I don’t know about you, but at times, for me, change can be difficult to accept and embrace. In moments like this I often think of that song by the Byrd’s – “Turn, Turn, Turn (To Everything There is a Season).” It begins with: “To everything - turn, turn, turn. There is a season - turn, turn, turn. And a time to every purpose under heaven.”
For me, it’s an affirmation that change will be the one constant throughout our lives... that change happens in its own time… and that there’s an impact associated with it.
I accept that change is inevitable and at times, it can be difficult to bear – very difficult. But how we deal with change matters. For me, I find that contemplating change I’ve experienced and having someone to talk to about it can be comforting and helpful. Holding to and processing memories that are dear and reflecting on their meaning in our lives is important.
How do you deal with changes in your lives? What helps you move through such times? If you’d like to talk about changes that you’re experiencing and dealing with, Chaplain Kate and I are available and would welcome an opportunity to spend time with you. Ask someone to reach out to us or call us yourself at (315) 464-4687.
Our hope is that the turning of the seasons in your life become blessings to be embraced.
- Chaplain Tom