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Ruby Psychological Services Clinical Psychologist and S*x Therapist specialising in trauma and s*x therapy.

My name is Dr Nichola Marchant, DClinPsy and I offer long term therapy to individuals and couples who are looking to improve their emotional and s*xual well-being being by working through issues relating to trauma and addictions.

I’ve just started reading this. I’ve had to put it down twice already and had a couple of Oh F**k! moments and I’m only ...
28/10/2026

I’ve just started reading this. I’ve had to put it down twice already and had a couple of Oh F**k! moments and I’m only part way through the first chapter.

For anyone who suspects they might be a people pleaser, a fawner, someone who chronically worries / thinks about what other people might be thinking or feeling …. This one’s a good one!

I have constant memories of asking “are you still my friend” at school (and the memories of other friends looking at me in disgust). Nowadays I don’t voice it but the thoughts are still there.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to know in the comments!

Today is day 7 of the online level 1 IFS training im attending. This is the last day of the first block (the last 7 days...
23/10/2026

Today is day 7 of the online level 1 IFS training im attending. This is the last day of the first block (the last 7 days are in December).

I’ve already noticed how for some of my clients, introducing parts work is really useful! This is the poem the trainers shared at the end of day 6 in case it speaks to anytime today…..

21/10/2026

Day 5 of Level 1 IFS training.

Just in a tea break after a 40 minute experience of IFS with a super experienced and lovely therapist from Australia.

I’ve probably learnt more personally and professionally in the last 4 and a bit days than in the last 5 years and I’m so looking forward to bringing IFS more into my therapy space as it really is transformative 🤔. I’m really glad I allowed myself to be brave and start the training as I had a lot of conflicting parts 😂.

Day 3 of my level 1 Internal Family Systems training today. Absolutely exhausting 😂 but so much good learning personally...
17/10/2026

Day 3 of my level 1 Internal Family Systems training today. Absolutely exhausting 😂 but so much good learning personally and professionally. Today ended with this poem I’ve attached below in case it resonates with anyone.

Day 4 starts on Tuesday 😮‍💨.

15/10/2026

Today I started my Level 1 Internal Family Systems Training which was really interesting! I’m really looking forward to incorporating this model into my work more over the coming months particularly to help those who have experienced trauma and those who have s*xual difficulties !

22/09/2026
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18/09/2026

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You did not "allow" or "attract" abuse. You were targeted by a predator when you were in a vulnerable place.

(This is true whether you were victimized as a child or as an adult.)

Big difference.

18/09/2026

For some people with ADHD, eating is impacted upon by about our executive functioning (like our ability to regulate attention, or not), interoception (our ability to notice internal body signals like hunger).

Here’s what I mean:

You hyperfocus.
You miss your early hunger cues.
By the time you realize you’re hungry, you’re really hungry.

Now your brain has to stop what it’s doing, decide what to eat, make it, and clean it up, all while your body is asking for energy immediately.

For some people, that can look like forgetting to eat, surviving on snacks, dinner paralysis, hyperfixation foods, or binge eating after unintentionally undereating all day.

This isn’t everyone’s experience with ADHD. But if it’s yours, you’re not alone, and you’re certainly not “bad with food.”

As a neuropsychologist (and someone with ADHD), I think we need to be talking about this a lot more.

I’m planning to make this a series because there’s so much more to unpack—interoception, dopamine, binge eating, hyperfixation foods, meal planning, and why feeding yourself can feel so much harder than people realize.

What part of ADHD and food do you wish more people understood? Let me know in the comments. It may shape the next post.

Love you, SurThriving with you (not me eating pickles out of the jar out of the refrigerator because my body needs SALT asap), XO, Dr. Jen



XO,
Dr. Jen

For anyone who needs to see this today….
18/09/2026

For anyone who needs to see this today….

If it costs you your peace, it is simply *too expensive*
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17/09/2026

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Belper

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Wednesday 9am - 7pm
Thursday 9am - 7pm
Saturday 2pm - 6pm
Sunday 2pm - 6pm

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