Ruby Psychological Services

Ruby Psychological Services Clinical Psychologist and S*x Therapist specialising in trauma and s*x therapy.

My name is Dr Nichola Marchant, DClinPsy and I offer long term therapy to individuals and couples who are looking to improve their emotional and s*xual well-being being by working through issues relating to trauma and addictions.

15/06/2026
15/06/2026

An NHS Tayside Clinical Psychologist has carried out research looking at the meaningful impact of receiving an autism diagnosis, irrespective of age.

Dr Jamie Ferrie’s ‘Exploring Autism in Middle-to-Later Life: A Systematic Review and Thematic Synthesis of Cognitively and Verbally able Autistic Adults’ highlights the importance of supporting people to reflect on their life with a new understanding of themselves.

Autism is commonly associated with being diagnosed in children and young people, however, increasingly adults in middle-to-later life are seeking diagnosis and support.

Despite increasing awareness of neurodivergence and autism in older generations, there remains little research in this area meaning the voices of older autistic people are often underrepresented and unrecognised.

Dr Ferrie explored the experiences of autistic people aged 40+, which involved screening more than 3,000 research articles and identifying 14 that were eligible for analysis.

This involved using a ‘thematic synthesis’ - a research method used to combine and analyse the findings of multiple qualitative studies.

The research identified overarching themes emerging from the experiences:

• Being autistic in a dominantly neurotypical environment leads some people to experience stigma, discrimination and increased isolation. Some then internalised these beliefs, which impacted on their sense of identity.
• Health services could reinforce ageist and ablest attitudes towards older generations, which could impact the opportunity for timely diagnosis and support.
• For some, a diagnosis offered power, validation, a shared language and way of re-evaluating life through a new lens. For others, a late diagnosis brought feelings of frustration, a sense of injustice for how life could have been if earlier diagnosis.

Dr Ferrie said, “It was important to consider how we as professionals involved in diagnostic assessments could better understand autistic older people to inform clinical services.

“The research highlights the meaningful impact of receiving a diagnosis of autism, irrespective of age. It also highlights implications for services involved in providing more timely diagnostic assessment and support that is neuro-affirming and meets the needs of an under-looked generation.

“This research will inform how we, as services, respond to the changing needs of older neurodivergent people experiencing mental health difficulties.”

The full report can be found in the comments...

13/06/2026

😅 I love this 😅
What would you call your anxiety if you had to give it a name?

I think mine would be Margaret...the name might not be silly but the way I say it in my head is 😅

Art by Robbie Williams seen at the Moco Museum London.

And if you’re the friend who replies “fine”, what would help you reply in a more open way ?
06/06/2026

And if you’re the friend who replies “fine”, what would help you reply in a more open way ?

Ask twice. If a friend says they’re ‘fine’ don’t be afraid to doublecheck by mentioning specific changes you’ve noticed. Maybe they’ve been quieter or less active in the group chat.

Men face unique societal expectations of strength & stoicism, which can lead to too many suffering in silence.

Su***de remains the single biggest killer of men under 50, so let’s normalise making uncomfortable conversations comfortable. For someone it could be an absolute lifesaver.


05/06/2026

Love this .. give it a watch

04/06/2026

Touch and intimacy are really tricky for lots of people ….

For those who need to read and believe this….
04/06/2026

For those who need to read and believe this….

You Matter

It’s time to look after you 🫶🏻

Katie

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31/05/2026

Think of a time you felt "bored" by a genuinely good, safe person/relationship. If you look closely at the "spark" you usually chase in chaotic relationships, is it actually love, or is it just the familiar adrenaline of an old wound/childhood being triggered?

Our unconscious doesn't look for what is healthy. It looks for what is familiar. If your childhood or past relationships were a chaotic rollercoaster of unpredictability, abandonment, or having to perform to be loved, your nervous system calibrated to that high-stress frequency.

To your body, chaos feels like home. High anxiety feels like passion.

When you finally step into a safe connection, your ego doesn't experience it as peace at all.
Instead it experiences it as an existential threat.
Safe love requires vulnerability. It means the armour you wore to survive the old battlefields is no longer necessary.
But dropping the armor makes our inner child terrified of being blindsided. So, to regain control, your subconscious creates a preemptive strike: it sabotages the relationship before the other person has a chance to hurt you.

Cat O Dowd

Photography- Allan Leinez

Who can empathise with this?
31/05/2026

Who can empathise with this?

Surviving or Thriving?

It’s time to start thriving, not for your family, colleagues or friends. It’s time to start thriving for you. 💕

Katie

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